As conclusion, there are 5 main stages in Malay wedding:
1. Adat Merisik - informal proposal by the groom's family members
2. Adat Meminang - family members from both sides will discuss about the suitable time and date
for the engagement ceremony and wedding ceremony
3. Bertunang - also known as engagement ceremony
4. Akad Nikah - to obtain the consent of both bride and groom
5. Bersanding
